About me…
My name is Arella, and I’m a Mindset Coach. I specialize in helping women reclaim the power they have given to external circumstances over them. Our mindset is essential in how we want to live life. It shapes how we experience each facet of our human existence.
Coaching is my passion, a driving force in my life to spread the happiness and abundance I have found through owning the direct connection we have to God as the never-ending source of all that we desire. I am a philosopher, a lover of wisdom. An admirer of the mind’s inner workings, devoted to the power it holds when awareness wields it like a sword, advancing us into the direction we want to move towards. A rebel reveling in life through this Divine vessel, open to experience every facet in all of its richness.
Through my work, it is my soul’s wholehearted wish to be a channel of this message, a message of uncovering our unwavering connection to God as a means to access our innate power. The power to create, to co-create with God in our perceived individuality. A message of acceptance and deep-rooted love for the Oneness, for existence. Love for the light and the dark, for the presence and the absence. Join me in becoming closer to Divinity, embracing the paradoxical beauty of life, and becoming unconditionally present with it. And while at it, creating your desired reality through your mind’s awareness, your God-given fragment of Consciousness.
“Like gold, we’re refined through the fire”
I’ve gone through a lot of things in a relatively short span of years. I was born and raised in a dysfunctional family, which led me to experience a lot of childhood trauma. Later at the start of my teens I developed an eating disorder that lasted about 9 years. I went on to have a host of health problems during my physical development. I experienced depression, an anxiety disorder, and a few years ago I was diagnosed with OCD. During those years I experienced a range of physical health symptoms, and felt like a slave to my unwanted thoughts that I just wanted gone.
Inner alchemy…
I felt hopeless. Some doctors even told me that I would always struggle with certain conditions. It wasn’t until I discovered my innate power that things started to shift. I was slowly breaking free from the power I had given away to things outside of me. I am now healthier than I’ve ever been in every aspect, and can truly say that I am happy. Even though I still experience pain, discomfort, sadness, and fear (as we humans do), I don’t let that take away from my gratefulness to be alive. I don’t let that stop me from chasing my dreams. And I have learned to be thankful for my story. Thanks to it, I have become the woman I am today. And simultaneously, I know it doesn’t have to define my future.
During my journey, I have received wellness and mindset coaching and mentorship, which has supported me in my own personal growth. This taught me the value a great coach can provide and how they can do so, inspiring me to follow this path.
I share my thoughts and views on life through my YouTube channel and my Instagram account.
My Approach as your Mindset Coach
I work with the mentality of “Life is not a problem to be solved, but a reality to be experienced.” I won’t try to “fix” you or dig into your past with the goal of identifying what went “wrong”. Instead, I offer you my guidance in your own empowerment as you are right now. And encourage you to become the woman you want to be in order to have your desired life, despite what may have happened in your past or any unwanted circumstances you may be experiencing. We act from a place of surrendering to life and God’s wisdom.
Through my work as a mindset coach, it is my wish that my story will be able to motivate and inspire others to not let their current circumstances define them, and that things can and WILL get better once they decide to reclaim their power in their lives. You don’t need to be completely “healed” (whether physically, mentally, emotionally, or spiritually) to move towards your happiness and live the life you dream of. When we accept where we’re at and deeply appreciate it, when we open up our capacity to receive life fully as it is right now, when we welcome the reality God wants us to experience and love it (and ourselves!) unconditionally, that’s when miracles start to happen and we can actually take inspired action towards our dream life with ease.
Ready to change your life?